ENFJs are the benevolent ‘pedagogues’ of humanity. They have
tremendous charisma by which many are drawn into their nurturant
tutelage and/or grand schemes. Many ENFJs have tremendous power to
manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique
salesmanship. But it’s usually not meant as manipulation — ENFJs
generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and
enablers, which they usually are.
ENFJs are global learners. They see the big picture. The ENFJs
focus is expansive. Some can juggle an amazing number of
responsibilities or projects simultaneously. Many ENFJs have tremendous
ENFJs are, by definition, Js, with whom we associate organization
and decisiveness. But they don’t resemble the SJs or even the NTJs in
organization of the environment nor occasional recalcitrance. ENFJs are
organized in the arena of interpersonal affairs. Their offices may or
may not be cluttered, but their conclusions (reached through feelings)
about people and motives are drawn much more quickly and are more
resilient than those of their NFP counterparts.
ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in
general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for
the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than
most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive
people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can
Some famous ENFJ’s: Abe Lincoln, Sean Connery, Ronald Reagan, Johnny Depp, Oprah Winfrey, and Dick Van Dyke. My problem with this: no negatives. It paints too nice a picture. Makes it hard for me to believe in it. I’d trust it more if somebody who knew me very well answered the questions for me. Give it a try it yourself.